Tuesday, April 30, 2013

ANZAC day 2013

For ANZAC day this year I was asked, in my Lay Ministry role, to give a talk, blessings and prayer on 'ANZAC day' at the Kingswood Rest Home in Matamata specializing in the 24 hour care of people who have been assessed as requiring Stage 2 or 3 Dementia Care.

I visited there on the Wednesday before and met some of the residents and became familiar with who I would be talking to.
I was asked to keep it short as some could only have an attention span of about 20 seconds. So I started with the words below, appreviating it if I felt the need to do so.

However they were all very attentive and so I didn't reduce it by much at all.

I started with the verses from Matthew that I have highlighted in yellow.

Some verses from Matthew 5:1-12

1 Now when Jesus saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to him, 2 and he began to teach them.
He said:
3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
5 Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.
6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
7 Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
8 Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
11 “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.
12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.”

We are not a perfect society, there are many areas of life where things could be better, but the basic freedoms we have ensure that we can look to our future with hope.

Today is Anzac day which calls to mind another aspect of life in New Zealand that I am thankful for.  I have never had to face some of the difficult decisions of older generations:  particularly the decision to go to war.  The point I am making is that younger generations have a different viewpoint on commemorations such as Anzac day because we have no personal memory of the wars of the 20th century.

While April the 25th was originally set aside to remember the events of Gallipoli during World War 1, our understanding of Anzac Day has expanded to include all wars where New Zealand and Australia soldiers fought and died.  The remembering of the sacrifices of our soldiers is an essential aspect of Anzac day but is not limited to that.  

We are very fortunate to live in New Zealand at this time. New Zealand is a very special place and we are truly blessed. Not only is it a beautiful country, we are free from war, invading nations and are considered a safe land.

Anzac day is an opportunity to reflect on the overall impact of war.
The remembering of the sacrifices of our soldiers.
We remember those who served in the armed forces who have now passed on but are thankful they returned home.
We also think of the families who lost loved ones, for those who had to wait at home hoping for the best.
We think of the places where war destroyed communities and took innocent life.
All of these ideas are summarised in the words, lest we forget.

 ♥Lest we forget these brave soldiers going into war just to protect our freedom ♥
 ♥ risking their own lives for the sake of others back home, ♥
 ♥you all brave soldiers are in our hearts and never forgotten ♥

They shall not grow old, as we that are left grow old;
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.

God bless them all.

I followed with Let us pray

Father God, We thank You that we have this day to remember the impact of War.
We ask that You be with all those in our forces who are still involved in military activities.
Protect them as they do their tasks.
We pray for peace and understanding for all.

Then I followed with grace.
Thank You for this day here with family and friends.
Thank You for this wonderful food we are about to share.
We ask You to bless it and especially those who have prepared it.
Bless us all this day and always in the name of Jesus Christ.

These people may be suffering from dementia but they certainly didn't forget the words 'lest we forget'
When I had finished my little thoughts on Anzac day with those three words, there was an echo around the room as the men mainly, all repeated "lest we forget"
I felt so touched and realised how much of a privilege it was to share this day with them.

After I had said a grace we all shared a meal of finger food.

Before I left I went and said good bye to each resident as I was so touched to be with them all that day.

All scripture is taken from New International Version 1984  

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Mumsey's Ramblings: Dorcas (Tabitha), A Christian Woman

Jacket with Knotted Hat

Sometime ago Jennifer asked me to knit this little jacket for her son Jacob. I found it a difficult one to knit as it is knitted as one long piece and as I wanted to make it longer than the pattern I had to undo a few parts and re-knit them to make sure I increased the length in all parts of the front and back. Sometimes I would get the wrong part increased.

The way the garment is knitted with the ribbing being horizontal rather than vertical meant that the jacked was short anyway. But I have since steam ironed it and it sits better now.

I have finally finished it, the little bootees and novelty hat with a knot but Jacob has long out grown it.
As Jacob is now waiting for the arrival of a baby brother or sister I am passing it on to Jennifer for the next baby anyway.

It is from the booklet cleckheaton 951, design number 7 ( there are 8 in the book and I have already done a bolero ).

I used Shepherd Baby Merino wool in grey (colour 2957)

Monday, April 22, 2013

Dorcas (Tabitha), A Christian Woman

This is a sermon I give at the 8.00am service on Sunday with a bit more added that I didn't talk on as it is quite long! It is taken form the reading in Acts 9:36-43 

36 In Joppa there was a disciple named Tabitha (in Greek her name is Dorcas); she was always doing good and helping the poor. 37 About that time she became sick and died, and her body was washed and placed in an upstairs room. 38 Lydda was near Joppa; so when the disciples heard that Peter was in Lydda, they sent two men to him and urged him, “Please come at once!”
39 Peter went with them, and when he arrived he was taken upstairs to the room. All the widows stood around him, crying and showing him the robes and other clothing that Dorcas had made while she was still with them.
40 Peter sent them all out of the room; then he got down on his knees and prayed. Turning toward the dead woman, he said, “Tabitha, get up.” She opened her eyes, and seeing Peter she sat up. 41 He took her by the hand and helped her to her feet. Then he called for the believers, especially the widows, and presented her to them alive. 42 This became known all over Joppa, and many people believed in the Lord. 43 Peter stayed in Joppa for some time with a tanner named Simon.

The name 'Tabitha' is Jewish, and means gazelle'. 'Dorcas' is Greek, and also means gazelle.
Many Jews living outside Judaea had two names, one Jewish and one Greek or Latin
Dorcas was a disciple known for her practical works of mercy and lived in Joppa a seacoast town in Dan, today known as Jaffa, South of Tel Aviv. Joppa is a town on the Mediterranean coast, 35 miles northwest of Jerusalem.
Women in the Christian community, like Dorcas, were models of the virtues encouraged by Roman leaders: traditional family values like good sense, courage, contentment, and fortitude.

I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, 10 but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.

Dorcas is a perfect role model of a strong woman that had good sense.
The Bible text does not tell us whether she possessed physical beauty but we know that she was beautiful in the eyes of God and in the eyes of the widows and the poor that she helped.
She gave herself, her time and her love to serve the neediest among them of the day which were the widows.  We could think of her as perhaps an example of the woman who is “above rubies” in Proverbs 31
It is believed that she was raised in a “Godly” home where she learned to use her fingers and funds for the comfort of the needy. She was well-known for her works and charitable deeds. Among her good works was making clothing and coats for widows and the needy of her church and community. She wasn’t only willing to give financially; she was willing to give of herself to do the work the Lord had given her the talent to do.
Dorcas was dearly loved in her church. She wasn’t famous as a prophetess; neither was she a preacher. Instead she was a woman full of good works and charitable deeds. The people loved her because she cared for others and demonstrated her caring in practical ways.

When we are introduced to Dorcas there seems to be an indication that she was a widow, or at the very least that she joined the widows in their works of charity. We don’t know how long ago this had happened, but from the number of people for whom Dorcas had made clothing, we can perhaps assume her husband had died some years before. Dorcas had not stopped living because her husband was gone. Instead she reached out to other believers and found a meaningful and happy life in serving them.
The original Greek text describes Dorcas, this widow-woman as 'mathetria', a female disciple - the only time the New Testament uses this word, in fact, the only named woman in scripture who is specifically called a “disciple”. So immediately we know she is a woman of good repute. Some have taken this to suggest that Dorcas held the office of deaconess. Certainly her focus on providing practical help to other believers fits the kind of ministry first-century deacons performed.
This might also be indicated by the fact that Peter took the trouble to come to her from a neighbouring city, Lydda, when requested by the community members.
A true disciple, Dorcas had learned of Jesus and had decided to follow Him. She had adopted his views and lifestyle, lovingly living out His commands by ministering to the poor around her.
James 1:27 explains
 27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.
There was no mistaking it anyone who knew Dorcas knew who she was and whom she followed.

 The story in Acts indicates her prominence and the story goes on.

One day Dorcas became ill. Her illness is unspecified, but we may assume she was nursed by her friends; there was nothing corresponding to a hospital or medical centre at that time. Sick people were cared for, and treated, within their own home, by their friends and family.
When she became sick, her fellow believers were deeply concerned. When her friends, at the church she attended, heard that Peter was nearby, they send two men to urged Peter to come and bring him to Dorcas' house - no doubt the widows of Tabitha's circle of friends had many sons and nephews who could be roped in for this sort of task. Undoubtedly, the people had heard that Peter exercised supernatural powers, and they hoped that he could do something supernatural for Dorcas.
And then she died. It was a sad day for the church of Joppa they had lost someone they loved and who was an important part of the family of believers. However, they had faith that God would do something when one of its most beloved and devoted members died in the midst of her works of charity. Dorcas was well loved but it appeared that she did not have any relatives to mourn her passing. The widows, who were her friends, washed, clothed and laid her out in an upper room; and grieved for her.
The 'upper room' has special significance in the Christian story. An upper room was the scene of the Last Supper in Jerusalem, and it is mentioned again, in the story of Tabitha. It is a space that is removed from the hurly-burly of the ground-floor courtyard and public rooms, a relatively quiet place where contact with God might take place.
Ritual mourning follows her death. She has many friends, and they all wish to show their respect and affection by openly grieving.
Mourning was not a restrained activity in the ancient Middle East. People showed their grief by wailing, crying, and tearing the upper part of their woven garment. The more noise, the more the dead person was loved.

Peter responds immediately, and his journey is significant. It is a twelve-mile walk to Joppa, and by travelling there Peter is moving to the limits of Jewish territory - further away from Jerusalem, which at that time was hostile to the infant Christian church.
When Peter arrived to the place where her wake was being held he found that Dorcas had died. He is taken to Dorcus's body, laid out in the upper room of her house. Her friends are gathered around her body. They show Peter the garments she has made for the poor. The evidence for a well-lived life is there for all to see.
Even in their grief, her friends wanted Peter to know what a wonderful woman Dorcas had been. Acts says

39 Peter went with them, and when he arrived he was taken upstairs to the room. All the widows stood around him, crying and showing him the robes and other clothing that Dorcas had made while she was still with them.  (Acts 9:39).

Peter, when he saw how much she was loved, was moved by all of the people who were mourning this saintly woman whom he had been told much about by the men who came to get him. Peter who had learned to walk full of the Holy Spirit knew God had brought him there for a reason. He asked the people to leave him alone with the body so that the room becomes peaceful and quiet again. He fell to his knees and prayed facing away from the body - perhaps to focus his entire mind on God. Peter was moved enough to pray for her restoration.  As Peter prayed, I believe he would have called to mind the raising of Lazarus - John 11: 41-44

41 So they took away the stone. Then Jesus looked up and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me.”
43 When he had said this, Jesus called in a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” 44 The dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen, and a cloth around his face.
Jesus said to them, “Take off the grave clothes and let him go.”

He would have also remembered a promise Jesus had made: John14:12-13 

12 Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. 13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.

A good disciple follows their master and that is what Peter did. Jesus said 40 The student is not above the teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like their teacher. (Luke 6:40).

Peter simply copied what he saw the Lord do in a similar situation. In Mark 5 Jesus raised a little girl back to life. Like Jesus, Peter therefore asked everyone to leave the room. Like Jesus he took her by the hand and said “Tabitha koum” (“Tabitha, I say to you, get up.”). And like Jesus, the Lord answered Peter’s prayer and raised Tabitha from the dead. The Bible mentions only seven people who were raised from the dead. And Tabitha is the only adult woman among them. Notice the effect – many came to believe in the Lord as a result. The life, death and resurrection of Tabitha helped spread the good news of the life, death and resurrection of Jesus.
Though we don’t know what went through Peter’s mind as he knelt and prayed at Dorcas’ bedside, we do know that God worked through him in an extraordinary way.
When he rose from prayer, led by the Spirit he called to her using her Jewish name, Tabitha, and drawing on the same source of power that Jesus had, he commands her to get up. The dead body responds. She opens her eyes, sees Peter, and sits up. He extends his hand to her and raises her up into a standing position. Then he called her friends (believers and the widows) and presented her to them alive, who then see with their own eyes what has happened.

The benefits of this miracle go far beyond Tabitha and the circle of friends who mourned her death and rejoiced at her restoration to life. Acts does not attempt to describe their gaping amazement.
It simply records that because of this, it became known all over Joppa and many people believed in the Lord.
Peter and the first Christians are inspired and heartened by the event and the infant Church spreads and grows because of this miracle. The resurrection of Dorcas caused a great revival in Joppa as the message rang “Dorcas is alive again.” Her resurrection convinced many people of the truth of the Christian faith and many people believed in the Lord and the church must have been filled with the people that accepted Christ as their Savior because of this miracle.

And though scripture doesn’t tell us how Dorcas responded to her incredible experience, it doesn’t take much to imagine her joy.

But it is important to see that there are two dimensions to the raising of Tabitha:
    she is restored to life and
    she is returned to her friends and community.

The life of the body is one thing, but it must be accompanied by life within a community.
Dorcas did not aspire to be a leader. She was content to be a servant of the Lord. I believe it is even possible that she never realized that the miracle of her resurrection had caused such a revival but I believe that was the way it was with most of the people of the Bible, they never knew the results of how the Lord used them for His glory.
It only takes a willing heart for God.
God still uses willing servant’s hearts today, “seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness” and who knows you might be the one God chooses to use to glorify His name.
It’s clear that Dorcas was deeply involved in the lives of the members of her congregation. Although a widow herself, she had made “tunics and garments” for the other widows in the church and undoubtedly for other needy folk as well.
But ministry involves more than distributing clothing. Those Dorcas served truly loved her. She must have been so caring, so involved in the lives of those she helped, that her giving was never perceived as demeaning or as charity. Dorcas had the gift of giving herself even as she gave the clothing she made for others.
Like a good neighbour, Dorcas was always there for others. And people loved her for herself, not just for what she did for them.
Her simple concern for others rather than powerful speaking or a great singing voice won Dorcas the love of her friends and neighbours. Sometimes in our desire for a more public ministry we forget that the greatest in God’s kingdom are called to be servants, and servants are called to care for those they serve.
Serving others wins a great reward here as well as hereafter. Look how those Dorcas cared for loved her. We get so caught up in accumulating things that we seem to have no time to love one another. Yet loving relationships fill the heart as no possessions can.
Dorcas’ work of making clothes and helping the poor may sound insignificant when compared to the outstanding works of the apostles, but they were enough to gain the love of her community and enough that God saw fit to restore her life. It’s our love for God and the love we share with others that makes us beautiful in God’s sight. Dorcas was a good woman who was so loved by the family of believers that they prayed for a miracle and God granted it.
We know little about Tabitha. Her reputation was made from something as simple as sewing clothing for the poor. It could just as easily have been cooking. It seems this was her one talent. Not particularly remarkable you might think and yet, Tabitha surpasses every other woman in the Bible. You might never have considered sewing as important a gift as say teaching or prophecy, but the fact is, she is the only one called a disciple - a disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ. This should teach us not to despise the gift of helps, or undervalue practical serving. She opened her heart to Jesus and that changed everything. The word ‘disciple’ means a learner, a follower, and that became her motivation in sewing clothes. It was out of gratitude for Jesus that she dedicated her one gift to Jesus.
Can you do that?
This is the reason I am sure Tabitha was “always doing good and helping the poor”. Because she was following the example of Jesus, following the prompting of Jesus, to do good and help those in need.
She could sew and so she sewed to the best of her ability. She was sewing for Jesus.
Can you do that?
What are you good at?
What do you enjoy doing?
What energises you?
What is your contribution to your church?
To the poor in your community?
To widows and orphans?
What seemingly insignificant talent or ability do you possess that would mean a great deal to someone in need?
What do you have in your hands this morning?
If God could use Tabitha with something as basic as a needle, what might he use in your hands?
What gifts has the Lord entrusted to you?
What is he calling you to do with them?
What lights your fire?
What are you passionate about?
Are you channelling that gifting or passion for Jesus?
What are you doing for Jesus?
                                                                          It can be as simple as sewing or baking, fixing or driving.

“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” (1 Peter 4:10)

True faith expresses itself in deeds not words. You have heard the expression. “Action speaks louder than words”. The highest calling in Christian ministry is to care in practical ways for the most vulnerable in society, especially widows and orphans. In previous generations, ports like Joppa, would have had a high proportion of widows, more than other towns. During bad weather, fishermen, merchant and naval seaman were often shipwrecked and drowned. Their wives and children lost not only their husbands and fathers but also their income. That is why the Lord instructs his people:
“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.” (James 1:27)
If we want to influence people for Christ, as Tabitha clearly did, then use your gift to serve them, willingly and joyfully. Many of the widows of Joppa were walking around in clothes made by Tabitha. She became a person of importance in the church because she found fulfilment in, and focussed her serving in doing what she was good at. She realised her potential.
Are you?
Tabitha began a movement that spread well beyond her community. She has inspired literally millions of women and men to use whatever gift they have received to serve others. May God inspire you to use your gifts for his glory today.
The Legacy of Tabitha – sewing for Jesus. What will your legacy be?

Today, the memory of Dorcas is still a part of our society. Dorcas, is honored with a feast day in the United States of America on January 27. The Dorcas Society is a local group of people, usually based in a church, with a mission of providing clothing to the poor. Activities usually include making and distributing garments, supplying food for needy families, caring for the fatherless and widows and ministering to the sick.
The original society was founded in Douglas, Isle of Man on December 1, 1834, as part of the community's thanksgiving for being spared from an outbreak of cholera. The poorer families in town had their clothes and bedding destroyed as part of the effort to prevent the disease. Today there are other Dorcas societies around the world, providing clothing and other physical needs.

Sermon Fiona Van Lent 21/4/13
All scripture is taken from New International Version 1984  

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Cherry Biscuits

This is one of the easiest biscuits I have made.
Jennifer asked me to make some before I went to babysit Jacob as she said Jacob loves cherries, so being the Nana I am, I happily obliged.
And yes he did eat the whole biscuit not just the cherry off the top. In fact he went back later for a second one, opening the tin and sneaking one out!

140 gr butter
140 gr caster sugar
240 gr flour
Glazé cherries.

Cream softened butter and caster sugar until light and creamy.
Beat in flour.
Don’t add all the flour at once. You want a soft mixture that holds together but not crumbly nor sticking to your hands either. So add all but about the last 40 gr of flour and then add the last bit if need be.
Roll into balls and place on baking tray.
Flatten with the palm of your clean hands.
Place half a glaze cherry on each biscuit.
Bake at 170° C for 15 to 20 minutes before they start to turn to a light brown.

I have also made these with broken chocolate buttons, in white and dark chocolate on the top instead of cherries, and called them "A Taste Of Home Cookies".

Saturday, April 20, 2013

But she said he didn't like Feijoas

The other day I was blessed with the opportunity to babysit one of our grandchildren, Jacob.

He is just two and such a delight at this age.

After he had had his afternoon sleep, we shared some of the cookies I had made the day before and tidied up some of his toys and things.

Then he rode his bike round and round the garage as his mum had taken the car so there was plenty of room.
I thought it would be a great idea to go for a walk in the push chair as the rain had stopped for awhile. But in trying to put up the pushchair, much more complicated than the ones I used for our children, I managed to some how get the hood caught and trapped in the front hand rest. It was stuck fast and I needed to collapse it again, shift the hood bit around so it was on top of the hand rest part and then try putting it up again. Even the initial putting up had been a bit of a fluke, mainly because Jacob had helped.

But do you think I could work out how to shut the thing down. I know it wasn't a computer but it certainly felt like I needed some sort of process to find the shut down button so the thing could collapse.

Even Jacob tried to push and pull buttons with me in the hope that he could remember what his mother had done other times. After ringing Sarah to see if she knew and being told that her pushchair was different, I left it for Jacob to be content to push it round and round the garage thinking he was driving Miss Daisy (the cat).

Well Jennifer (Mum) came home and rescued, the pushchair and Nana. We still managed a walk in the pushchair as she wanted to get a few things at the shops.

Once back home Jacob feeling a little peckish, as any growing boy is, helped himself to a feijoa. His mum insisted he didn't like them but cut him up one anyway and gave him a spoon.

I thought this would be a fun opportunity, the expressions he would make as he tasted the feijoa, spitting out the fruit once he had tasted it - so his mother had said he would do.

Well as you can see by the following pics he actually quite enjoyed them and ended up eating two with the help of Nana spooning them out.

But the thing I found a little amusing is the laid back way he went about the eating. He sat in his chair and popped his feet up on the little foot stool. Perhaps like his Dad.

I couldn't help feeling how capable he was with the teaspoon scooping out most of the fruit pulp...remembering he is only two.

After he had finished he wanted to check out the photos Nana had taken of him so I let him see what I had stored.

My camera is not elaborate so I was not too worried and he proceeded to try to take a few shots of his Mum himself.

A little blurred but pretty good I thought.

All in all a lovely afternoon spent with family.

But the down side to all this was I didn't think about what was the result of Jacob and his sticky feijoa fingers on my camera.

In fact it wasn't until a few days later after I had used my camera for a few other events wanting to have photos to record as a memory, that I realised looking at the now fuzzy and blurred pics, that little feijoa fingers leave smudges all over the camera lens!!